From what I learned in my C appts. That MLCer's tend to bury any feelings for their spouses. When my h was going through his mess I got the "I don't have any feelings left for you." Many more of those kind of statements. They are feeling so guilty it is easier for them to bury those feelings.
When my h started to morph out of MLC back into a human again he told me the same things. I had always loved me, he thought of me and the kids all the time, he missed me.
My h has been home for about a year and a half now and it wasn't until last November that he was able to say that he loved me and he put his wedding band back on. I didn't push him to do it, he did it on his own when he was ready.
