It kinda means the person isn't sure of the right word choice. Perhaps that they are not sure the term really fits or that it is being called that by someone else, and socially they feel like they should use the term, but they're not sure it really is accurate. Sometimes people use it because they are uncomfortable with the social implications.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
