when he offered to come home how did that cone about and why?
Once, when he first moved out, I thought that part of it was just to get his space. He admitted that it was, and said, “Do you want me to move back?” I told him yes, and he did for a week or so and left again.
Then, when I caught him going back to the LDEA before it ended, he offered to move home so we could work that situation out. I accepted, but then he withdrew the offer.
Also, about a week after he moved out (the second time—are you guys able to follow this silliness? ), we were having lunch and he told me, “I probably would still be there [at home] if you hadn’t researched those hotels.” (He stayed in a hotel for about a week, and was conflicted about leaving, mostly because I encouraged it at that point). My heart almost exploded out of my body when he said that, with both regret and justified anger for him trying to put the blame for a decision he made on me. I still feel regret about it, although I know it’s pointless.
Basically, he was pretty conflicted about leaving at first, and has become more resolute over time, esp. during his 6 weeks away.
It is in the shelter of each other that people live.--Irish proverb
), we were having lunch and he told me, “I probably would still be there [at home] if you hadn’t researched those hotels.” (He stayed in a hotel for about a week, and was conflicted about leaving, mostly because I encouraged it at that point). My heart almost exploded out of my body when he said that, with both regret and justified anger for him trying to put the blame for a decision he made on me. I still feel regret about it, although I know it’s pointless.
