Could you talk to your H again and maybe suggest 1 day/wk for family time and maybe 1-2days/month to have a date night? You adlib as needed but if you compromised before about your schedule maybe it's time to compromise again. I know compromising brings up "expectations" so now that you are together what does DB say??
If there is a way you can say and/or write about your FEELINGS concerning this issue, that could be helpful.
