Hmm how do I handle this one. When we were separated H and I agreed on a timeshare system for babysitting which went like this. My free time: Tuesday night, Thursday night, alternate Friday nights. All day Sunday His free time: Monday night, Wednesday night, alternate Friday nights. All day Saturday Now we are back together but he still seems to want to carry on with the system? I had assumed otherwise. I am especially not happy about the weekend arrangements. I know he thinks it's a problem when we are all four together and that the kids play up and I become more controlling. Although I am working on that one I feel we should try to work together so we can become a proper family unit and all four be together easily. I know this is what S(4) would like. It also doesn't leave us much time together as a couple.
what does anyone think
Fran
if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs Erica Jong
