Yup, I think they were. It all seems to have gone off the boil when I said yes to him selling. I think maybe it was more about control for him and, not picking a fight exactly, I don't know how to describe it. I think me being co-operative took him back a bit. Ithink the true reason though is that he is that he is so busy at the moment he just can't think about it and it will rear it's head in a few weeks when he is less so. Not really fair on me...

I think I am just going to keep quiet on it for now. My priority is getting this bank thing sorted. I think the best thing would be for me to back off a bit now. So long as his money goes in tomorrow we should be ok for a few weeks. If I push things now he will respond badly I think. It just means I have to try not to stress in the meantime. You know that is hard for me not to do though.

I just want to bang my head on the desk though because it is such an easy thing to fix!


M- May 2006
D - Aug 2010
Now travelling the world