Forget about goals, R's, etc. You go and have a good time. Sometimes I think way too much focus is on "ME" and occupies the mind way too much vs. what a person could be doing each and everyday.
Enjoy your time with friends, sitting by the pool, going to dinners and lunches, enjoy your kids more than anything. They grow up so, so fast and just be you, the loving mom and have fun with them while you are able to.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
