Completely and utterly devastated--how to cope

[istherehope]

I am sooo glad I just saw your post. I was in the middle of a very long email to him. Basically we have agreed to finalize a joint budget for these 3 months. I am putting it together. Of course it includes things like my flights to and from Poland, and it included a flight for him to Poland. I included a lot of stuff in the email about where I would stay when I came to town, how I could stay in the spare bedroom, or we could add budget for a hotel.

Maybe I should can the email and adopt this "take it as it comes" mentality about those details.

ITH