Well, I think he's annoyed at me. I got a text saying

'How do you mean messed up? I got paid today, money goes out tomorrow and it should be a same day transaction.'

Well, according to his text on the 24th he said he gets paid 'tomorrow' i.e. the 25th he said nothing about a week tomorrow. What is he playing at? He always had a tendency to fob me off for an easy life but this isn’t good enough. We are talking about paying a mortgage which comes out on the 28th of each month. It doesn't change. Anyway,. I just sent a light text back saying

'Oh, I thought you said in your email that you were paid last week. I thought they'd done the same thing as the cheque. Cool, thanks for confirming that with me.'

I hope that's ok. No response to the email asking him for lunch tomorrow. I am really running out of patience. If we just met and sorted this bank thing out it would no longer be an issue and we could both relax. I really don't understand what the problem is. This is really upsetting me now. I’m really trying here…

Plus, it's all so boring having to do this every month!

Last edited by JCJ; 07/30/08 03:32 PM.

M- May 2006
D - Aug 2010
Now travelling the world