Sounds like you know how to handle things although you dont like facing them and you are doing a pretty DAM good job at it. Does W seem to be feeling guilty about all of this? Seems W is a little confused as to what she really wants, but feels she has to carry on on what she has enivisioned of the better life.
I feel like I have a handle on the business end but not so much on the DB end as the sitch has moved too fast and she hasn't been around that much. My GAL and improving myself with the changs have been noticed which is nice and she senses there is a bit of permanance with them (she said that she knows that when I decide to do something I do it.) But, afterall, DB is about improving us and if the W comes around, so be it,right?
Does W seem guilty? I think so but she puts those feelings aside, covers them up by hanging with her friends/OW and keeping focused on getting out. I think W is confused and she even said that she is looking forward to the time alone to think things through and deal with her issues. Now, it will be a very humbling experience for my W to admit this was a mistake and that we should work to heal the M either before the D is finalized or even afterwards. She's not the type to admit she made a mistake.
Originally Posted By: jandn
It seems to me these WAs feel that the only way to better is to leave and they have so much energy invested of taking the steps to move out and carry on and money invested that there is no turning back no matter what, regrets or not.
That's what I feel is going on with my W.
Well, just heard from L. Need to go review and sign my counterclaim. Game on this afternoon. Yippee!
I'll post more in a bit.
Chris
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