Thanks ITH. Remember it this way. You met and fell in love once already, right? That was as whole people. So the odds are in your favor for it to happen again over someone else he's never met yet.
I would keep plans, itineraries, and visits to myself, away from him, as much as you can. I think sharing them overmuch may seem like pressure to him, and thus be seen as controlling. I get the impression that he will view much of anything that he doesn't ask for as controlling. This includes offers to edit and proofread and all that other stuff.
