From what I can tell, we all have similar stories....we didn't necessarily spend a lot of time showing H we loved him, making love, etc...maybe even treated H poorly at times which caused them to pull away and ultimately decide the R wasn't for them. All that said...when we were treating them less than kind what made us open our eyes and decided we REALLY WANTED THEM??? I don't know about you, but for me it was him making a decision to leave. All of the sudden I started pouring words of love and affection all over him...all acts that were completely the opposite of the way I'd been acting which caused him to leave in the first place
I think that without a doubt that I fit neatly into that description guys. My XH said my whole being went into our D and I didn't put the same effort into other parts of our lives. Sad thing its it was all true.
Woman...I like your strategy.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
