Well, yeah, I'm ok looking, but with 2 special needs kids and extremely broke--think that I'm not quite a hot catch!!! I knew that my H had run up our 2 credit cards since he moved out, but just noticed on the D paperwork he used a credit card we had paid off (29% interesting or something on it when we were in college) and ran that up over $3000. I think he's insane or something. I guess he figures the judge with all our debts will just order me to work full-time or something and thus take care of all our $$ problems? I just don't get it. What did he even spend that money on--I know the pogo stick but just crazy... Karen