Thanks for your very nice post. I completely agree and know in my heart that you are 100% right. I guess it's just the leap between logic and emotion that can be so hard to overcome.
What you've said about being whole people on our own before coming back together makes perfect sense. I just hope the whole person he becomes will like me/love me again, especially when he won't get the chance to be around me much for the next couple of months.
I will be traveling for work for a few months, so will be making my own decisions. It's just that I'm now also trying to make decisions around how often to come back and visit. I don't want to overdo it.
I guess for me the biggest thing to focus on will be exercising again. While I'm unusually thin from not eating at the moment, I used to be very healthy and fit. It's about time I get back there. Thanks again for your help and advice. Sounds like you've done well in the end, even with all of the ups and downs. I get so caught up in my own situation, that it's hard to realize others can be even worse...
All the best to you! ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
