OUR ADVICE. We have told you outright to act in a way that demonstrates PROTEST of her affair
YOUR ACT. You meet up with the OM and shake his hand.
I for one would not believe a word he says or any remose he visibly shows to you. It is remotely possible that having the POLICE show up in your home and HE is in bed with your WIFE MAY have actually awoken some conscience in him. Its possible.
But, from my experience, my reading, his age and his history of bheaviour so far, he's just playing you. Why on earth would anyone give up sex with your wife to make YOU happier?
He's sitting in YOUR bed sleeping with YOUR wife, you shake his hand, to my mind you just signed off on him continuing. Next time you surprise him and your wife in your bed in your home - take a camera and USE IT.
I am not gonig to tell you what to do beyond this point, but it is important that you understand why PDT and I are withdrawing our support.
