Thanks mark and puppy for getting me this far and making me face the music and take action. Wish me luck at least
ok Buster, I am going to apologize for cutting out so quickly on you. It was cold. I am NOT going to write pages of advice to you anymore if you are just giong to act impulsively and sabotage it.
When we spent hours and hours on here offering you advice and you act on that, it motivates us, gives us confidence to continue helping you. When you all of a sudden decide by your actions to say "[censored] that advice" and just act on IMPULSE you are doing the SAME THING TO US as your WIFE does TO YOU.
Like you, we put a lot of work into this forum, like you, we are engendering trust and hope. Like you, we begin to feel hope and like you we want to see something successful come of that. When you BETRAY THAT and act on IMPULSE and SABOTAGE that work we have done you basically tell us we are worthless...just like your WIFE does TO YOU.
If you want to work, work with us. If you don't agree with our advice, then say that. But to go behind our back and ACT without even talking to us first and then AFTERWARDS come to us for HELP, just like your wife is doing. She built your hopes up for years, trust build up. Then she acted on impulse, went behind your back to sabotage everything you built together and THEN has the nerve to show up in court asking for support.
We are not saying do as we tell you to, in some cases we won't even give you outright advice becasue we can't. But PDT and myself cannot and will not work with people who sabotage their own efforts and ours on impulse. This is the policy we ask from our spouses and we accept no less from you.
