losing sunshine but gaining happiness either way

[jandn]

Sounds like you know how to handle things although you dont like facing them and you are doing a pretty DAM good job at it. Does W seem to be feeling guilty about all of this? Seems W is a little confused as to what she really wants, but feels she has to carry on on what she has enivisioned of the better life.

It seems to me these WAs feel that the only way to better is to leave and they have so much energy invested of taking the steps to move out and carry on and money invested that there is no turning back no matter what, regrets or not.