Hey kalni -

I'm doing SO MUCH BETTER right now! Finished my paper. \:\)

Yes, her webpage is discouraging. I wasn't ready to read it when I first came across it. I needed the positivity of the DB message. Now, I need the heavy dose of realism. I think all of us in Surviving do - mainly because most of us have been made to feel like it's all our fault and that simply isn't the case.

thanks for checking on me! Hope you have a sunny day - lodo


Divorced: 10/26/08