Three small, doable in the next 2 weeks action-oriented and positively stated relationship goals:
1. To be able to smile and say hello when he comes home without having to go up and give him a hug or kiss. (Giving him space)
2. To be able to read when he wants to be close or when he wants to have space, and to be able to divert myself into some other activity without reacting badly at those times.
3. To be calm and consistent, without reacting, for the two weeks. ( I realize to make this goal I start with the next few minutes and then the next hour, then the day, etc.)
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.