mark, yes he does live with mommy. she is aware of his actions, apparently doesn't care, which bothers my in laws to NO END. back story - family of OM and family of W used to be LIKE_THIS. now OM's mom won't even say a word to my MIL, and my FIL cannot wait to give OM's parents (and OM) a piece of his mind. After I left work I got behind his car going down the highway. I asked him to pull over and we talked about the whole police run in. weird thing is, I expected him to tell W. she was shocked as heck to hear i talked to him. he said to call him anytime (wuss bag) should I use this to my advantage and pal around with him ? invite him for a drink or something to eat ? i know the usual scenario dictates I stay away from OM, but he welcomed me in (shook my hand, stated he knows he's the bad guy!)
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
I would have just settled for bad move but if you guys wanna bail I understand. My point was that I got an apology for the whole situation. I just thought that since he told me to call him and didn't tell her that he was unsure of his position and whether he should continue stepping in crap. I won't go that direction. Thanks for at least warning me before you bailed.
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
For anyone still reading, my wife called to apologize for hitting me and I gave her the silent treatment and we hung up shortly after. She called back and again asked why I wouldn't grant a divorce. She again for some reason told me she didn't want to be with me, but then tried to negotiate with me (i.e. If I would divorce her if she put a stop to OM coming over. I said I'm not talking about this and got off the phone. I got a message saying she regretted having a child with me
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
still have an appointment tomorrow with a lawyer, appointment with pastor today to fill him in on recent events (cops). My in laws said they weren't talking to W since she won't listen so I'm going to see what pastor has in mind as per markf. I have heard from people at work in similar situations that I won't be able to have social services help or get a paper keeping him away from my property. Will try though
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
So if parents, pastor and friends won't help, the only thing left to try to keep him away is to move in. I told my parents of my intentions and my history of marijuana. So she holds no cards now, especially that card where I let what she says bother me. Said she is not moving into a house with friends anymore, but that will change if I move in I'm sure. Wonder if her parents telling her it was a bad idea had something to do with it ? Probably not
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
