Rob, I so agree with Kalni. The power W has over you is absurd. Can your lawyer give you any advice about exactly what your visitation rights are now? Was there ever a visitation agreement? I know you are waiting for the evaluation , but your L needs to work out something with her L, just so W can't put you through this. Every time, it seems she might be softening, she pulls this. Sounds like for your D's sake, you need a temporary agreement.Your W doesn't seem to think there are any boundaries and she has full power over D. The constant threat that you have done something wrong with D is not only harmful to you but D as well. She must question D constantly about what you do with her. Maybe your L can put a stop to this. You just don't deserve to live under this constant threat.