I understand the roller coaster ride. Been there done that still get on once and a while but it is a short ride, Thank god.
You need to stop looking for anything from your W. You need to appriciate all that you are doing and the changes you are making on your own. When you are happy and content with yourself what others think or say about you does not matter. It is nice to hear them but it does not effect you if they don't because the persons opinion you should really worried about is yours.
Also patience is key. I know it is hard, My M is on hold has been for a while now. You cannot push her or make her see the light it will not work. Keep doing what you are doing it is working, let her move out if she wants. She is searching for answers and until she finds them within herself she will remain lost and an alien to you. Frustrating, HE** yea, come here vent I do it will make you feel better.
The seminar was nice. Nothing like eating and drinking for free. Had a great time on monday night. W called me four times I will update my thread as soon as I get thru everyone elses and get some work done. Need to do that once and a while.