mark, yes he does live with mommy. she is aware of his actions, apparently doesn't care, which bothers my in laws to NO END. back story - family of OM and family of W used to be LIKE_THIS. now OM's mom won't even say a word to my MIL, and my FIL cannot wait to give OM's parents (and OM) a piece of his mind. After I left work I got behind his car going down the highway. I asked him to pull over and we talked about the whole police run in. weird thing is, I expected him to tell W. she was shocked as heck to hear i talked to him. he said to call him anytime (wuss bag) should I use this to my advantage and pal around with him ? invite him for a drink or something to eat ? i know the usual scenario dictates I stay away from OM, but he welcomed me in (shook my hand, stated he knows he's the bad guy!)
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF