Can I cry?? There is still no money in the account I have sent a very nice text just asking him to double check with the bank again. As well as the email though I feel like I am pursuing.
Why can't this issue just go away, it is so pointless as it is not as if we both don't have enough money to cover the bills, if we didn't then that would be a different issue. I can't even make it up myself as I have been paid late.
Well, I think he's annoyed at me. I got a text saying
'How do you mean messed up? I got paid today, money goes out tomorrow and it should be a same day transaction.'
Well, according to his text on the 24th he said he gets paid 'tomorrow' i.e. the 25th he said nothing about a week tomorrow. What is he playing at? He always had a tendency to fob me off for an easy life but this isn’t good enough. We are talking about paying a mortgage which comes out on the 28th of each month. It doesn't change. Anyway,. I just sent a light text back saying
'Oh, I thought you said in your email that you were paid last week. I thought they'd done the same thing as the cheque. Cool, thanks for confirming that with me.'
I hope that's ok. No response to the email asking him for lunch tomorrow. I am really running out of patience. If we just met and sorted this bank thing out it would no longer be an issue and we could both relax. I really don't understand what the problem is. This is really upsetting me now. I’m really trying here…
Plus, it's all so boring having to do this every month!
Julia: Kudo's to a response well done!!! You kept your cool, and didn't get pissy. That was fabulous!!! Even in the midst of your frustration, you handled it like a gem, and I am sure your H is probably sitting back scratching his head right how going "HUH?!?"
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
TD - Only my parents and I think I would probably kill myself after a week of it there :-) Plus, we'd still have to pay for the place until it's sold, I may as well get use out of it.
Lola - I really hope he is! I'm so bored of this issue and being made to come across as a nagging wife, I hate that feeling. ALso it would be solved so simply too. I sometimes it feels like he is being really sadistic but in fact I think he is just being a DAM.
