Hi, my x has been m to his ow for 3-4 yrs gosh I can't really remember. Is that good? He told his d he is happy. Sanderika: The less you know the better as Barb said. We have all had derogatory names for the OW at some time or other but what we see or hear is not what our husbands see so it doesn't stop them going ahead and marrying them. My x actually told me he would never marry again and had no wish to D, a few months before he did.
