(((Buster))) So sorry this is whats happening to your family right now.

FWIW, don't listen to a word she says. She is angry, confused and looking for someone to blame for her problems and you are it. No matter what you say or do, she is going to blame you for everything and thats just how it is. Get used to it. Just because she says it though, doesn't make it true, its just what she has to tell herself to justify her actions.

In my opinion if you really don't want OM around your son, move back into your home immediately. If W wants to leave, let her, but I wouldn't let her take your son and you don't have to. If I hadn't been through the stuff I've gone through in the last 9 months, I would tell you to file too. Its easy, its clean and you can move on, but if that isn't what you want. If you still want to fight, then you need to be in it for the long haul.

You have to put out one fire at a time with WAS. The big picture is saving the M, the middle picture is the end of the A, the right now is how to keep OM away from your son. Deal with what you can right now. You can't change the end yet, not in 1 day. So do what you can today.

Just wanted to give you my $.02. You are in very capable hands, but I just wanted to give you a different perspective. Take care.


M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option