After thinking thru sending a letter about the offer, I think it's best to put that one off for a while. Maybe a general letter from my attorney, which she suggested may be in order last year, but nothing regarding the financial right now.
I'm back to avoiding any contact if I can help it, especially b/f he leaves on Thursday. I had S5 at my mother's house for P/U today, arranged by e-mail. *Wow, if you are reading this H, she commented on how wonderfully charming you were & how you want to spend as much time as possible w/your S.
I'll be out of here when S5 comes home in the morning, so it'll be a short while til he's gone (again).
He's going to Texas for a competition alone, although OW joined him for the last part there last year.
I just don't care if she's going or not....it's not going to consume me. I've let this affairee take up enough space & time already, & I'm now going to block her out. She can keep on thinking the D is in the mail. People who want to get D'd get D'd & he hasn't even filed yet...could happen, but I wouldn't plan my life around it.
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She WANTS to hear you and talk to you...don't GIVE her that. You said she likes communicating with you...so DON'T. (Mark F)
That suits me now....I'm not giving thing's away freely anymore, I don't care how hard the push is.
