apparently some (most) people here think that by moving back into my house, my wife will realize i'm not a wimp and that I stood my ground and fought for what I believe is a bad situation. She keeps telling me she doesn't want to be with me, she wants to be with OM, she loves him, etc. end of story. I've been nice to her up until today. Now she is getting the cold shoulder. Just because I won't give her a divorce doesn't mean I'm sitting around hoping she comes back. It isn't like that. The Task at hand has changed 3 times since i started coming here. We started at 1)help me change her mind to 2)help me slow down divorce proceedings to 3) help me keep OM out of my house and property. My wife has, in the past 2 months, cheated on me at home and abroad, said she hated me with every bone in her body, hit me in the face, told me she doesn't love me anymore, told me she wished I'd die, and told me she regrets having a son with me. Do I believe any of these statements? no. why? because she is angry that everyone and their mother (including her mother) is on my side, and thinks she is making a mistake. they know i'm a good guy and father most importantly. Does she care what people think ? no. why ? because she's brainwashed into thinking OM is the be all/end all to her life's problems. I have news for her. it didn't work the first time for a reason. We'll see it again. Does that mean I should just call it quits and give her a divorce ? no. my choices are : 1)give her a divorce and have her treat me like [censored] 2)don't give her a divorce and have her treat me like [censored]. which is better in your opinion ? we have to put up with each other for the rest of our lives. If you know the answer to how I get her to come back to me, please enlighten me.
Last edited by buster80; 07/30/0806:45 AM.
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
