Hi Nicola! Thanks for checking in on me. Are you headed to Maine sometime soon? I remember you making that trip in years past.
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Thanks for your continued positive support.
Right back atcha, girly!
No big updates here. H seems to be repeating his previous pattern of staying away on weekends. I'm frustrated right now because he's using the refi money to spend, not to pay off debt as we agreed, which means that I need to lay this boundary out there more clearly: this is not money to play with. I'm ready to do it kindly and clearly. I'll let you know how it goes.
In the meantime, I'm trying to focus on GAL. I think that flirting made me feel worse right now--reminded me of what I want from H and am not getting. Went to see The Dark Knight today--great effects! I have plans to meet a friend for drinks tomorrow, and there's a big art thing going on downtown on Saturday that I'm looking forward to. So life rages on.
One thing I meant to post before: H was by one day and said that the house looks better than he ever remembers it looking when he was here. I just smiled. It's probably due to the fact that I'm not waiting around for him to pick up his part of the chores. I hope that a little bit of it is from him starting to surface from the vat of MLCBS he's been swimmng in for so long.
BTW, I had someone spray the bees. He collects nests for free and sells them to a company that makes allergy shots from the venom. This nest was too small to collect, but he took care of it for me for free. Good to know there are nice people out there!
Be well, friends. And to all the teachers out there: we still have another month of summer!
