DO NOT tell her about the email. It makes you look too anxious (which I know you are..). Let her see it. It's just you getting this off your chest. Do you know how often she checks her email? Everyday? Once a week?
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
Ms. Bug is right! Leave it! You can't tell her to look, you can't ask if she looked, you can't ever do anything to try to figure out if she has read it. Remember, you really sent it for you, knowing that she might not even open it. So, looking at it that way, you've already succeeded!
DO NOT tell her about the email. It makes you look too anxious (which I know you are..). Let her see it. It's just you getting this off your chest. Do you know how often she checks her email? Everyday? Once a week?
Just got home.. i did as you said without even knowing it.. not a mention.. i have to do gym tonight, then take my dogs for their fave, a car ride, to get cat litter.. she checks her email every day before and after work.. she does not have access during the day
Ms. Bug is right! Leave it! You can't tell her to look, you can't ask if she looked, you can't ever do anything to try to figure out if she has read it. Remember, you really sent it for you, knowing that she might not even open it. So, looking at it that way, you've already succeeded!
Agreed.. i will never ask.. and i won't even snoop anymore.. i know her passwords, but will NOT do it..
I knew I had to check out your thread and just there at the very end is a message for me. Lots of us up in Fort McMurry I went south as opposed to west
I hope your wife sees the email and really does some thinking. I gave my XH a letter on the day we signed D papers. It didn't stop the signing but I know he thought a lot of it just the same.
I'll add you to my FB too.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
some guy in a car is sitting across the street ... W isn't home yet... but i'll tell u .. if it's the guy she went on date with.. i will want to kick her out tonight.. i am being a spy and watching in the dark..
yeah i know.. this guy has been sitting in his car since before i got home from the gym, he watched me get out of my car and bring stuff into the house.... i guess i should just not worry about it, because i don't know.. maybe it's just some guy casing out my house
Regardless.. as good as i've been.. i don't find this necessary.. is she trying to start something..
