Is this the end ? (Soul Mate Final)

[buster80]

hypothetical. I move in, her and son move out. Then what. Hypothetical 2 - I move in, OM continues to come

[Frank V]

Move in there with a freind of yours or a famliy member who can house sit. You really need to take a stand here.

You have done nothing wrong, you can move in there, she can call whomever she wants. You are clean aren't you?

Is there any reason to be intimidated by anything she throws at you?

I honeslty think she has no cards here, but you only know that for sure...is there something you didn't tell us?

Otherwise, move in and show her who owns that home.

[Frank V]

Buster, you MUST get someone to move in there with you to house sit. And that person must be willing to interrupt your wife if she brings OM there. Her parents would be best. Find someone to house sit and move in.

[buster80]

Only thing.....my parents don't know we did drugs. She will go tell them if I move in. Really don't want to risk that happening. Might be disowned. Could lie and say they know ?

[Frank V]

I am telling you to take your son back and call social services on her. Don't threaten, do it. Move in and send social services on her.

[Frank V]

Buster, she's going to threaten to do that eventually. TELL YOUR PARENTS and be the man here, if that's the card she has, DISARM her by telling them yourself.

[buster80]

what will social services do

[Frank V]

She's having an affair. They won't let her parent that kid if she's having an affair and allowing OM over to your home.

Sick the dogs on her.

[Frank V]

My hope is that they won't let her care for your son until she ends her affair.

I would look into it first, but I really think they may help you here. What do you think puppy?

If you are clean and she's running around, they won't let her have him.

[buster80]

told my parents about the drugs. lawyer consultation set for thursday. not moving in or calling social services til i speak with the lawyer.