Maybe I'm the one being selfish. I should just sell the house and move into town, too. Maybe they are better off with her right now.
I think you should do what makes you happy about the house, and that will make your kids happy. I do think kids need both parents if possible. Even though my H has been kind of flaky & unreliable lately, the kids would be devastated if he wasn't part of their lives, so I am really happy and grateful that he has been seeing them a few days every week. Karen
Karen