I gotta split, I told one of my wife's best friends about her affair. She's known this best friend for twenty years, and we have BOTH known this best friend for over twelve years. Her best friend is really upset...so of course I am the bad guy.
Granted, I should have talked to my wife first, but like you I discovered something upsetting and reacted.
I am not sure if I made the best call here, but now I have to ride the storm out.
Also Buster, very good call on calling the police and not throwing him out yourself..it takes a lot of balls to do that...I don't know if I would have handled it with nearly that amount of strength.
