OH, and you can always have a friend or two of yours stay over with you when you move in. She isn't going to bring her OM there if you have someone watching your home while you are at work.
I am SURE yo ucan find someone who won't mind living there with you for a while to keep that house OM free.
Also, having your friends over and some good times there will clean away the smell. You can always sell it later. Right now I would reccomend moving back in with a friend or family member and watching her pack and leave.
Hold off on divorce for now though. There's no hurry. I think the boldest thing you could do would be to stick to your guns on the dbing. But do'nt talk to her. Show her you are hurt by not talking to her.
But I would seriously consider calling social services, I really don' think she's mature enought o parent a child right now. You can always hire a sitter or use day care you don't need your wife to do that. And if you are parentin gthe child, she can't ask for support.
