It's not called ignoring. You answer your phone if you want to. Don't call him unless you absolutely need to regarding the kids.

If you can e-mail even better. He really does need the space to clear his head. If you are always knocking how can he clear his head.

The alone time is when he will do his best thinking. If you want to get a card and gift from the kids go ahead otherwise happy b-day e-card is what I have done in the past.

How is the anger helping your sitch?


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"