Memories keep sneaking in....I still miss him!

[ddstartingover]

Treese - I'm glad you started a new thread. I wish I could be helpful, but as you know I'm behind you in all of this.

I met with my C today. I talked to her about confirming the existence of OW. She encouraged me to tell him that I know. I told her that I planned to. I let her read the letter that I've been working on---which is now only 3 paragraphs long. I need to give it to him this week. I can't wait any longer. I just have to find the right time. My C thinks I should be present when he reads the letter, and I think she's right. If I'm not there he can avoid, and he's avoided for two long now. I'm hoping to give it to him before the weekend. It's "mine" with the kids, so he'll have time to adjust to the fact that I know.........