Okay, I couldn't just let it go. I had to go back to the car and look at the condoms I found this morning. Do you know what? I ended up leaving this note for my husband and packing a bag for the night.
"Dear Bill,
Did you know that every condom has a lot number? Did you know that the condoms in your car are lot # XXXXX that match the lot number that is in your nightstand that I just bought about a week ago?
Did you also know that the little cubbie that you said you put them in before our vacation I've been in since we've been back from vacation? (I was throwing pocket change in there.)
I am trying really hard to believe what you told me this morning."
I am at a little motel a couple towns away.
I called my counselor and told her what happened before I left. She agreed with my leaving the note and going for the night.
I still don't know concretely that he's had an A, but it sure looks like he was prepared in case the opportunity presented itself. I'm just numb. I haven't even cried. I suppose I will eventually.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.