But you know that you are not condoning her A and deep down so does she. You do this for yourself. You get to maintain your decency and are not rude. You are not leading her on in any way because you haven't shown her any more than politeness.

This has been hard for me too. He won't come home in any way until that nasty band aide falls off, which at this rate may be never. Oh well, can't dwell on that. Get a sitter for the kids, not your W, and just chill. Read a book or watch a movie with us without kids needing Daddy. Really, it will do you a world of good.

kat


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Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory