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hey kat,

you don't need to be worrying about dating yet. As my friends have told me - no one wants to date you right now. Heal yourself first. When it's time to date, you'll know.

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same goes for you karen - dang, I can't keep your threads apart anymore!


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We are so much alike. But don't forget your quest in Scotland!!

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hey kat,

you don't need to be worrying about dating yet. As my friends have told me - no one wants to date you right now. Heal yourself first. When it's time to date, you'll know.

lodo
I was kidding a bit about the matchmaking--although if you do happen to see a really hot tall guy (older than 22!)....:) I'm not divorced yet, so of course wouldn't date now. My C says she always advises that you should wait 1 year until after the D to date! I'm thinking--no way am I waiting one whole year !!!-because of course by then it's going to have been 2 years or something--I mean come on she's gotta be kidding! Karen


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I don't like that generic guideline. My H and I have not lived together for a year and a half and haven't done the deed since November. There is just no way I am going to think to myself that I need to wait until the end of July 2009. I will let nature take her course.

So did you have sweet dreams last night? ;\)

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Those standard "rules" don't mean anything. Everyone moves at their own pace. But I must say, breaking the "drought" is pretty sweet (sorry).


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Just give the man some lemon juice will ya!! \:\)

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Nah, that'll just pucker me up.


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Now you are just pouring that juice all over our open wounds!! Ouch!

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Now you are just pouring that juice all over our open wounds!! Ouch!

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Well, I'm happy for ya, G, and I know Kat is too!!! Hopefully our drought won't last forever--or too much longer! I don't think I had much dreams last night. It was funny D8 said to my H when he left tonight Sweet Dreams if you have any (b/c she doesn't have many dreams she says). And he said, oh, I do! \:\) Although his are prob. about the OW! Yuck!

S14 and I went to the C today. Horrible weather/storms today so couldn't go swimming, so worked on the house and hopefully we can go tomorrow. I avoided H all night by going upstairs and working out/reading, and he didn't come up to see me which was fine by me. \:\) Karen


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