Thanks for piping up gentlemen. I appreciate the support. W has been very nasty w/ me today and I'm growing tired of it. Her ugliness makes DBing very, very hard to do. Today I asked her for 30 extra minutes to stay at the community pool w/ D longer, but she not only said no, but told me I always ask for more time and I should be able to plan better.
We then got to the drop off and she was pissed that D wanted to go pick up her pottery w/ me and acted like it would be a huge inconvenience for her. It turns out that she was planning on eating at a restaurant four doors down from the pottery place, so there was no inconvenience. She just wanted to be angry.
I just got a phone call from her where she started w/ "I want some straight answers" and I said, "Ok. Go ahead." She asked me if we had a party b/c D told her on Sunday that we were at a party w/ all of D's friends. I don't know why D told her that, but I even asked D if she told mommy she was kidding. D said no and that she didn't want to tell her she was kidding. W was ticked that I couldn't remember EXACTLY when I overheard D tell her this story and she also threw out the "why would she lie to me?" I told her it concerned me as well and maybe she was just playing out a fantasy of hers w/ you. Of course, W thinks we had a party.
She then said D told her I yelled at her when she fell off the bed and I told W I yelled at her when she put the drapery cord around her neck, not when she fell off the bed. W then goes on and says "I don't think she's safe w/ you" and then goes back to the line of I'm lying to her again - like always.
I finally told her she can make me out to be anything she wants me to be and she twists my words to fit what she wants. I told her I tell her what I remember and I don't remember everything. She then said I only remember when I'm cornered and "I've got proof." I challenged that w/ "What type of proof do you have? What are you talking about here?" W conveniently said "I'm done" and hung up.
I wish I could be done. I wish the parenting evaluation was "done." I wish we could all be "done" with this mess. She's trying hard to destroy any feelings I have for her and she did an excellent job of it today. If I knew my custody situation, maybe then I would finally be "done" as well.
My head really hurts. As far as looking at the computer tonight, "I'm done."
