How are you today?? I don’t think that you list is weak at all. some very good stuff on there. I know that you would want more but lets not look so hard for the big signs we miss little ones.
I find when i give advice it usually helps me because its easier to tell someone what you think they should do then to do it your self. you were the one that really made me understand how much pain my W was in, until that I was just mad and not seeing things from her side. Your H is in a ton of pain and that masks most other things but he cares for you a lot. that is what that list shows. right now in his confusion his actions are hurtful but I don't think they are meant to be.
look at the good side you did hook up once, I gave it the old college boy try once and was shot down miserably, if fact she even laughed at the audacity. Its ok though I was not excepting it to work. I think I understand the “fear of feeling connected” they just aren’t ready.
Me 27, W26 T-12 M-4 SEP 4/29/08 Holding 250 miles Awaiting Support Current
