DQ, Oh, I know I have blame in this. It's not clear what all of that blame is, as I can only work off of what she has told me...otherwise, I'm just pissing in the dark and hoping to hit the bowl. I was willing to put forth the effort to make those changes...change what's broken. If you don't know what's broken, how can you change it? I have told her what I felt was broken, and so far I have not seen that same willingness from her to want to change...therefore, the ultimatum WILL come.
