DO NOT tell her about the email. It makes you look too anxious (which I know you are..). Let her see it. It's just you getting this off your chest. Do you know how often she checks her email? Everyday? Once a week?
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."