Oldtimers: Return or not..what finally happened?

[Sanderika]

Hi Barbie,

I am also curious about Peace's question.

Is your X and the Maggot still happy? How long have they been married?

I am quite sure you are correct about my H in our sitch. He does not want to be the one to file. He definately does not want to be the bad guy. I am quite certain I am his "Safety Net", as long as he's married he doesn't have to marry the GERM.
Financially this could ruin him and all of his future plans. He does not want his finances to take even the slightest hit. I was the one who managed all the money. It is what I do and I am actually quite a whiz with it. I DON'T MIND PATTING MYSELF ON THE BACK HERE. My H has complained since he kicked me out of my job thathe never has any money any more. Cry a River to Someone Else, I say. It didn't have to be that way BUT that d*mn GERM has him fashionably wearing a choke collar with a 1' leash.

OH NO......the OW-GERM is at my company building where H lives. Just got one of those famous neighborly reports. My heart is pounding rapidly and I am instantly nervous. Maybe they didn't have their R - Ultimatum Talk yesterday and it is happening now. OMG OMG OMG I all of a sudden feel very scared. It is very uncommon for her to come down here in the middle of the week. OW lives 1 hour away. I need to breathe.

Going to go clean a closet or something to get my mond of this fear.

Sanderika