DQ,

Ok, let me rephrase my original post. She liked sex. How do I know? Because we did as you said, and we would talk about it. Maybe not to the extent that you and your current partner do, but no...talking about sex was not/is not taboo.

So who do I believe? The woman, who for 2+ years, I had a wonderful and open sex life with....or the woman who now claims to have never liked sex? Her actions of the past 2 years places a huge doubt in my mind as to the thruth about anything to do with our marriage. That's going to be hard for me to overcome those doubts.

DQ, I'm not doubting your tactics and I am sure that I come across as being very negative. I am not generally a negative person, but the past 2 years of rejection and failures have hardened my skin a bit. Sorry.