I do agree Sandi, don't leave just because I found your word choices problematic. It wasn't a "slap" more a nudge to be aware that certain words don't really describe "lives" correctly. You did hit a hot button with me and I apologize if my reaction seemed harsh. In retrospect let's substitute "troubling" for "repulsive" and call it a day.

I actually agree with most of what you said to Chris but the part about "choice, and lifestyle" got in my eye first. I think you don't really mean "convert" in this case, you probably mean "seduce". Potato/Potahto.

Don't leave on account of me because you have another useful unique perspective. Surely there's room for all?

I have a shovel and I'm not afraid to use it.
Stubby