Ms Imp..

You already ARE committed.. to being the best person you can be.

Worrying about others allows distracts you from your own needs.

When a thought like that comes up, realize its source and put it through the mind shredder. This is about... Who????

YOU!

Yes...

YOU!

You you you you you you you....

You, too, in case you forgot.

YOU!

*hugs*

PS... planning his future is also a control issue.. let that go too! (spoken by one who's done the same thing!)