I don't doubt her parenting skills. She's had lapses. I have never felt uncomfortable with them being with her. I tell myself that she does not make good decisions, but hey, I think we can all say we've had parenting lapses. Something we should have done different or not done at all. I wouldn't question their safety.
So far the consensus is that she needs to provide the things for the girls. This will get interesting. I don't want the girls to be without. I don't want them in the middle. Because she and I are being stubborn. I would feel terrible. Its my kids. No fault of their own. This is such a hard thing for me. I think I can let some things go. As long as they are not wanting at home.
I understand what everyone is telling me. And I agree.
But it's my kids were talking about here. What a sh**y thing to have to think about.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."