I think you have caved enough to fulfill her fantasy. Beds etc stay at the house where they belong. If she is not able to provide a bed for each of them then maybe custody issues will need to wait. Quit being so darn nice about this.

I still don't think she should get 1/2 custody because you don't seriously believe once she is out on her own, she won't be dashing off to see OM every chance she gets do you? One night a week and every other weekend I believe is the norm. Put your foot down. Whose toes are you afraid of stomping on??

kat

Ps if she throws out the mother card, tell her that when she starts behaving like one you will be more than willing to discuss it.


Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory