Cinders, Go off and enjoy your holiday and leave the issues of mlc and your h's issues at home. This is a time to enjoy those quality moments w/your daughter and your friends.
When the time is right, you'll begin to move forward and each person needs to move at their own pace. No one can rush this process.
Enjoy!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.